(I think they call this "failure to launch.") I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date.
And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.
reason, the woman assumes you're picking up on her. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust past this barrier.
Instead of complimenting a woman when you first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.
And that it's something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never really "get it"?First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. You need someone who's been through all the same things you have. Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway. Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..." And then you'll get more and more success.I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. And the other cool thing is that when you know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes. Here are a couple tips I learned along the way that will help you...Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... I don't want to catch anything from you." By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip her Trust switch in her head.You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.