As police officers, we deal with people in tense situations every day and take it in stride.Then why is it such a challenge for us when it comes to our dating lives?So we have to make extra efforts to really get out there in the world to meet dateable people. Well, what do you do when you become close to a co-worker and begin a relationship while he is your equal. This has been so stressful and we both have serious stress and anxiety issues from this.Even with all the incredible technology out there to help people connect, there appear to be a couple of consistent truths in dating as a female officer no matter how old you are or how scared you may be to get out there and try to meet someone. During the course of the relationship he is promoted. On top of this, being a female, I am constantlky subject to rumor after rumor, and a lot of sexual harrassment...These people go through so many emotions in a day based on what they see and hear.
They feel that if they were men, they would be considered heroes for their chosen occupation, but as women they are just doing something to upset their partner. For me personally, I was a divorced mom when I became an officer. It felt like men were looking for a challenge or they wanted to be able to put an "X" in the box on their bucket list that reads, "Dated a Cop." Some of our challenges are obvious—we can't date criminals or our bosses, and sometimes these seem to be the only people around.
It is not wealth, or health even, though the latter will help. I believe we should seek out perfection in our own lives. The lone wolf in me refuses to play nicely and the alpha in her refused to be the pleasure toy of a lesser male. She never failed to actively participate and make me enjoy her as much as I made her enjoy me.
It is not congenial work nor yet the love of countless friends. For the Trail is full of sweet surprises, and we are convinced, as Robert Louis Stevenson has said. were married (hypetheticly)Or may as well be you know? I have no desire to be in a relationship with a submissive weak woman no matter how hot she may be. I out shot her with her own service weapon, I defeated her in hand to hand combat, and I loved it every time she took me into her. I have never had a more perfect partner in bed than my police officer mate. To this day I cannot fathom having a mate who isn't as powerful as her or as capable of handling herself without me- I desire a complimentary mate not a supplementary one.
Because guest what, there is no such thing as "Prince Charming". My final thought is that if gonna date a woman, date a female cop for godsake; it will do you some good.
Well, I feel every Policy officer or law enforcement Person is very special..