The guy may also wonder if the girl is "interested", meaning that as soon as the money flow stops, the girl will walk away without any regrets.
By going to less expensive restaurants, you give her the opportunity to treat you as well.
Clearly a man who is concealing staggering debt, mistress(es), and a love child just needs unconditional love and understanding. He just didn’t know Well roll me in flour and call me a biscuit! Anyway, dumped that guy after one visit and got Janet the Good Shrink.
(There’s a chapter on her in my book.) Cheater Therapy Nugget — “I like being a narcissist.” Janet yelled: “ARE YOU LISTENING TO THIS?
Even if she is not that religious, chances are her family is, and they will not tolerate anything but a Muslim wedding.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, I think you need to convince your girlfriend that the best you can do is "fake" the conversion to become Muslim in order to look good in front of her family, but keep your own religion without telling people except her.