One of the first things you need to do when dating a married woman is to dress to impress.When she believes her husband has started taking her for granted, the fire in the relationship begins to dwindle down to just an ember so she is not looking for just another ho hum guy.She most likely will not leave her husband for you.A good rule of thumb when thinking that dating a married woman brings enough intrigue and excitement to suit you, it’s best to let her come to you to begin the process.When a single man dates a married woman it can be considered an illicit affair with no strings attached, but the temptation is usually there to turn it into something that it can never be, a long term relationship.
And he knows the older woman, flattered beyond belief that a younger man is showering her with attention, will be super easy to control. He will do with you what he will, when he decides, and dump your butt when he feels like it. She never nags, she doesn’t have the right to demand and stress you up (if she does, she knows she’ll probably be dumped, so it’s likely she won’t). It seems wrong to steal another man’s woman but it can feel so right for some single men.
There are no strings attached to it, either, so it’s just fantastic sex with seemingly no consequences. Men would love to have a lover who asks almost nothing of them. This especially applies to married women who date single guys. He’s not going to fall in love with you and marry you.
The married woman won’t expect presents or moan if he forgets to phone her. What this means for single men is the kind of sexual trip they crave without the guilt trip in the end. Practicality and convenience play a factor in affairs for the single man. You don’t have to worry about romantic dinners, tickets to the movies, or even “waiting” for sex. Supposing you’re a single guy out for a night with your friends perhaps night-clubbing, you see an attractive woman out with her friends and you strike up a conversation. He has no intention at all of staying with you for very long.
So today it’s the more rare circumstance — those few single men who have affairs with married women.
And how the single male’s motivations and approach tends to be different than the single woman who is someone’s affair partner.