So as a general rule in relationships, try to keep texting to a minimum and, when you do need to text, your texts will have much more impact.And if you need something urgently and immediately, In this day and age, what we really would do well to embrace in our lives is more space…It happens directly, through you and through you giving yourself space to be in touch with “you” (the “you” within). That’s not to say that women in today’s world don’t need space in their own lives. What I’m saying is that, for men in particular, there’s a part of our masculine soul that hungers greatly for pockets of time where we can be left completely alone… With my male friends, there have been times where we hang out doing an activity and maybe say 10 words or less to one another over the period of many hours…This is where you recharge your metaphorical batteries… It is in our best interest to give our partner as many opportunities as possible to have space in their life and this very easy to do when we understand it benefits the relationship immensely. and if someone asked how it was hanging out with them, we’d probably both say it was great.
it can happen in the same way a person could win the lottery or a tree could be struck by lightning… The odds are much higher you’ll waste a ton of time, youth and heart on chasing a guy who isn’t interested, when you could be spending it with a guy who wants exactly what you want… Now there might be those moments where you catch a guy in a chatty mood, but those are best viewed as the the men should text a lot or that men want to text a lot, you’ll save yourself a lot of grief wanting something that, for the most part, goes against a man’s nature.We didn’t have Candy Crush to play while sitting on the toilet.We didn’t have social media to check while gassing up our car.There’s this expectation nowadays that we’re almost meant to be constantly available and in contact with others…that we should be on our phones at every waking moment, ready to respond to any message sent to us. There used to be moments of space mixed into our days, where we would just have to wait for things.