Any man can have an affair even if he lives in the same house as you, so why do you think he is going to be honest when he lives in a different country?
If you’re happy about life, then the people around you will want to have you around them as well.
It is what it is, a holiday romance, even if you return six times a year to see him.
If you both want to take the romance further, then one of you has to move countries. Unfortunately most of the relationships that I have seen fail, is because the women wants to keep 100% of her culture and the Turkish man wants to keep 100% of his Turkish culture.
On a side note, you might want to read our article on building a great social circle. Although not as efficient, just telling her about your daily interactions (in a non-gloating way) can be an effective way of communicating your value.
In a work environment, the most valuable person can once again, be the social funny guy that everyone wants to hang out with, or the boss, or the sharp guy that the boss respects the most. what if the girl I like doesn’t know about these social situations ? The Double Your Dating book explains in detail exactly how to be perceived as the most valuable person while building massive attraction.