By Anonymous There's a saying that goes, "The best plan is to profit by the folly of others." That's what this article is about.
I want to share with you a few things I've learned -- the hard way -- concerning girls and relationships.
As a result, the relationship as a whole started to go south.
We might still be together today if we (I) had waited.
I've seen this happen with countless relationships, not just others of my own, but those of many other people.
And I think there's a reason for this, which I'll explain next.
That's something you won't see on TV or in the movies, but it happens a lot. The "love hangover" was a strange occurrence for me.
Mainly because when I was in college, sex was my "god." As a male, it's what I thought about morning, noon and night. If you have, you should stop and consider, "Why is that?
And so it goes without saying that when I get married, I'm not going to like the idea that someone else has had his way with my wife. Do you like the idea of someone else being with your wife? And so, instead of growing closer together, we actually started drifting apart.
It's like no one wants to acknowledge that it's happening, even though it is. Because we'll go into the marriage with me having more respect for her and her having more trust in me.
One thing I've learned: if a girl doesn't trust a guy, she doesn't want to give herself wholly to him.
For me, two things happened once I had sex with a girl.
As I look back on it, I can say that they happened literally every time, although I was unaware of these dynamics at the time.